Attending university open days is a brilliant way to meet your lecturers, potential course mates, and experience the university's vibe. This is the place you'll be living in for the next three years, so it's important you enjoy it!
Unlike other students, we can't go home during the breaks, so it's good to explore the city and consider what you can do in the breaks that you'd enjoy.
Reach out to the university's dedicated estranged student contact, if they have one! They can answer all your questions regarding finances, full-year accommodation contracts, and can be a friendly source of support if you ever have any questions.
The UCAS application
UCAS has added a box to the application for students to indicate they are estranged to the universities. This allows your universities to be aware of your circumstances and can offer you the necessary support. This may be signposting financial support, assigning you a member of staff to answer any queries, or it could be giving you a contextual offer. There is no shame in doing this and it’s the best way to get the support you need!
Look at which universities have signed the Stand Alone Pledge. They've guaranteed dedicated support to ensure your estrangement isn't a barrier to your uni experience.
You can see the exact support pledged on the uni's website. For example, Oxford offers guaranteed accommodation outside of term-time, a £3,000 estranged student bursary, unlimited counselling sessions, and a dedicated estranged student contact.
The Unite Foundation is a charity dedicated to supporting estranged and care-experienced students, offering a network for us all to connect and support each other, hosting meet-ups, and offering an incredibly generous accommodation scholarship.
Additionally, your university may have a society for estranged students or those from similar backgrounds. Many universities have a 93% club society for state educated students, and some have dedicated estranged student societies like Durham, Oxford, St Andrews, and Portsmouth.
Unfortunately estranged students don’t have a financial security provided by our parents. As a result, we often have to work alongside our studies and manage our finances more carefully than others.
If you find yourself struggling to afford your rent, food, or other necessities, reach out to your university about their financial support. See if they have a dedicated estranged student bursary or a hardship fund. These are usually grants to help you afford the necessities, and you won’t have to pay them back.
If you're applying for student finance, check their criteria for applying as an estranged student. This means they will assess you on your income alone, and you may receive the maximum maintenance loan.
Reach out to your college, support worker, or call the student finance team if this is confusing for you (it was very confusing for me…).